Longing for Love Relationships

Faceless woman gazing longingly through fogged window into dark room. Evocative of longing for love relationships ...Photo by Priscilla Du Preez on Unsplash

Hungry for love?


Longing for more

than what you’ve tasted


in love relationships

in intimacy


with partners, lovers, friends

family, groups, co-workers

groups of fellow humans

another human in particular

with yourself


The loveless dies slowly

in agonizing increments

even while ‘alive’

Person huddled up in agony and despair, 'dying slowly'.Photo by Žygimantas Dukauskas on Unsplash

Unlovable you

Unworthy me

Are we really so hopeless?

Is Love an impossible dream?


Could there be more

than what you’ve experienced:

Grow your love capacity

Open your closed heart


Discover a world

that gets wider every step

that expands beyond horizons

spirals through galaxies

Child gazes up in wonder at a galaxy in the night-sky ... at a world bigger and beyond full understanding.Photo by Kyle Cottrell on Unsplash

The impossible dream

is guiding you

leading you to Love

by the hand of suffering


Learn to hear its whisper-song

to heed it

to follow, faithfully

one step at a time


only one step

one moment


This journey of a thousand miles

is doable for anyone

because all that is required

is one step


your next step

Traveler takes their journey's next step into a sunset field, just like we take a next step on the journey of a thousand miles.Photo by Mantas Hesthaven on Unsplash

You are here

to recognise

your next step


to take it


to re-light hope

to surrender to Love


in the end

we are all slaves

to our Love-need

whether we deny







The treasure

at the heart of

your Love-need:

your lost and lonely




or your frozen





is that Love

is waiting

already close

closer than you dared


White flower frozen in ice begins to thaw - just like a frozen heart can thaw when 'Spring' comes.Photo by Zoltan Tasi on Unsplash

Love is your essence

your true Self

our true Destiny


but don’t believe me

feel free to scoff

but do you dare to



Experience for yourself

take a step

see where it leads


What do you have to lose?

Only lovelessness.

Next Steps into Love Relationships

Life guides us intuitively on our growth path, once we learn to follow. The good news is, even when we resist Life we still get to where we need to go (we just take a much longer and more painful route). So either way, Life doesn’t abandon us.

Yet dancing with Life, opens us to the magic many lose in childhood. It accelerates our journey with Love (and love relationships), meaning we experience more love, sooner! Another way of looking at it is that it is much more logically efficient to learn to work with Life, than to waste energy resisting it.

IntimacyIs.com can help teach you how to tune into Life’s guidance, which will be unique to you. It also may provide your next step in learning Love. Visit whenever you feel drawn and follow your hunches of what links to click on. Perhaps, bookmark us now.

Common next steps on people’s love adventures include: